Mukherjee sees it as her jobāand the job of the brands she leadsāto help people understand the truth: that perpetrators are the ones responsible for sex crimes. After she was attacked as a child, she told no one what happened. āLike with any victim, youāre so scared,ā she says. Then, when she was a young teenager, her mother diedāshe was hit by a drunk driver. As an adult Mukherjee was in an abusive relationship in which alcohol, she thinks, had a part. After she broke it off, she started volunteering with other survivors and saw that her experience wasnāt unusual. āSeeing the role of alcohol play into the abuse of other women and other victims as well, itās just unacceptable,ā she says. āAnd so for me to have this opportunity as a CEO to be able to start this conversation, thatās my responsibility as a leader.ā
The company developed their ads with RAINN (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network) and will partner with the organization throughout the campaign and onwards. On Valentineās Day, Absolut will donate $1 to RAINN for every share and retweet their campaign gets. Mukherjee has also signed on to join RAINNās national board. She plans to continue working with RAINN and campaigning for consent long beyond the initial ad rollout.
āPerpetrators out there are abusing alcohol and using it as a weapon, and it needs to stop,ā she says. āThatās the dialogue we want to create. Everyoneās been talking about ādrinking responsiblyā forever. But now letās put our money where our mouth is.ā
āThis is the first time thereās been a real partnership that involves a lot of public messaging and working together over the long term,ā says Scott Berkowitz, founder and CEO of RAINN. āTheyāve made clear that they want this to be a long-term relationship. Our mission is very straightforward: Itās to reduce the numbers of sexual assaults in the country. And I think their involvement is going to help us in that work.ā
For some the partnership might come as a surprise. But for Mukherjee itās just the natural, more ambitious expression of her values. Mukherjee spent years working with Chetna, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping South Asian women who experience domestic violence, as well as volunteering with other nonprofits that support survivors of abuse and violence. In separate conversations, she and Berkowitz used almost identical language to explain that drinkers should be held accountable for their behavior: Responsible drinking means ādrinking in a way that allows you to make decisions rationally, like knowing that you should not get behind the wheel of a car,ā they both say. In other words: Drinking isnāt an excuse for crime. And sex crimes arenāt an exception.
Thatās not a message thatās come from an alcohol company before. Itās not even a message thatās come from mainstream culture.
āThere is less moral culpability attached to the defendant who is legally intoxicated,ā wrote Judge Aaron Persky, in his decision to sentence Brock Turner to just six months in county jail, though Turner had been found guilty of sexually assaulting an unconscious woman, Chanel Miller.
āCollege Women: Stop Getting Drunk,ā read the headline of a Slate article by Emily Yoffe in 2013. āWhen [women] render themselves defenseless, terrible things can be done to them,ā she wrote.
Perhaps Jed Rubenfeld, a professor at Yale University, put it the most clearly, in the Yale Law Journal in 2013. āIs it so clear unconscious sex should be criminal?ā he asked.
These comments crystalized a belief most people have heard from college administrations, respected newspaper columnists, and parents and authority figuresāthat drinking makes you vulnerable to sexual assault. If you drink, especially if youāre a woman who drinks, youāre at least partially responsible for your assault.